A very close friend of mine was getting wed and although I hadn’t been asked to be the best man, the speech supplied by the best man was terrible but worse still he didn’t even attempt to direct it to the bride and bridegroom. Think about the groom, how long you’ve known each other, anecdotal stories about him and why his bride is the perfect girl for him. Brainstorm a list of thing about the wedding couple before writing your speech, or improvise as you go; just insure you put the main points on a note-card so that you don’t leave out anything important.
This is not a very good best man speech for a wedding and to start, it’s an insult to the bride here When you wake up to his address, thanking all for their assistance before you start to congratulate the bride and groom your friend. Try to talk about the type of character that the bridegroom will bring into the family if you are related to the bridegroom.
Respectable things to mention relating to the the bride is how delightful she is, or what a great influence she’s had in the bridegroom’s life.
Make sure your best man speech isn’t too long, as you will not be the only guest speaking. In most cases, the bride’s parents, the bridesmaid, and the groom will want to speak, as will any additional sets of step-parents, so keep your speech short and snappy to leave time for everyone else. Using index cards can help you with your best man speech since is one of the important one to make.
